"Let's try this instead."
"There's a place for you right here."
"Where do you need to be? /what do you need to be doing right now?"
"Here is something that you can play with."
"Food stays on the table." / "Sand stays on the ground."
If a child is behaving aggressively toward another child, the children will be separated and told "People are not for hitting/kicking/punching". Often aggressive behavior is the result of frustration. Every attempt will be made to address the underlying frustration.
If a child is behaving in a way that is unsafe or inappropriate, he/she will be redirected in a positive way.
Some typical phrases might be:
"It's time to ______ now"